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I've never been sentimental about a social media site but it's sad for me to see reddit so clearly killing itself. Pushshift is already banned and Apollo is soon to follow. Reddit will either pivot fully to a mainstream audience or die out. It's just sad for me to see it doing it to itself.

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[–] BobQuasit@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Not so much. I'm an early adopter, so it's not like I haven't been through this fifty million times already.

[–] goztboy@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Personally I'm glad to let it go. The site has been a source of frustration for me (not all the time but there's just some uniquely reddit things that get tiresome to run into constantly) for many reasons and having a reason to step away from it has made me realize I will only miss the one community on there I was active in.

The rest, I will let fade away from my memory and let it be.

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[–] Clbull@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Not really. Reddit has been an addiction for me at best, and a thorn in my side at worst.

What ruined Reddit for me was the community moderation. Not gonna name specific users but some of them are real assholes who will ban you because you violated some hidden rule not advertised on their subreddit, because you participated in another subreddit they don't like, or because they just had a bad day and felt like screwing with you.

Reddit has become this partisan mess where the right view you as a Commie if your beliefs are anywhere further left than Donald Trump, and where the left view you as a Nazi if your beliefs are further right than Bernie Sanders. Participate in the wrong community and you end up having a bot ban you from dozens of other subs. This goes entirely against the ethos that Reddit was originally founded on.

The worst part is that I cannot even use words like 'trump', 'incel', 'cuck', 'snowflake' etc on Reddit because most of the moderators have shadowbanned people from using such terminology.

I've been a Reddit user since 2010, shortly before the Digg-exodus, and I have never seen the website in such a bad state before. Only wish there was an alternative that wasn't a right-wing cesspool. Lemmy may be it.

[–] fluffman86@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

will ban you because you violated some hidden rule not advertised

Boy, are you in for a surprise on Lemmy. Did you see the thread yesterday about lemmy.ml banning people for posting news articles in a news community that are critical of the CCP?

[–] scrollbars@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe not mourn but I did have an "oh shit" moment today over a couple smaller communities where I don't know where people might scatter to. It finally sank in.

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[–] mayonaise@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Reddit felt like one of the last decent places on the internet that wasn't being completely taken over by ads or suggested content. Sure it was there, but I also knew that there were a lot of real people there too. When in doubt, anything you googled could have the word "reddit" added and get you an answer. It feels like all of the social tools we use to communicate with each other on the internet are rapidly deteriorating in favor of profits.

[–] hamtooth@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Reddit is the new facebook

[–] Banjo@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Going to miss Apollo ಥ_ಥ

[–] Homo_Stupidus@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah. Reddit has been my internet home since 2012. It's surreal and depressing to see it so far gone. Still unsure where I will go next, but lemmy feels familiar at least.

[–] latte@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i’m mourning it a bit, but to be honest i think it’s going to be a bit difficult for me to get off for a while until other places (aside from facebook, which i’d much prefer to avoid over the current iteration of reddit) have the same amount of niche communities. for example, i’m in a private pregnancy subreddit with other people with my same due date and it’s reallllly useful in comparing notes and feeling like i’m not going insane at any given symptom and i think it’ll take a while for a place like lemmy to have an audience big enough to build niche communities like that.

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[–] DingoFan@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not any more than I mourned digg. Reddit is dying, just like Digg did and we collectively looked for a new home and found Reddit. I am hoping Lemmy takes off and we make our new home a decentralized version of the parts we liked about reddit, without the parts we didn't like.

Will be a fun ride and I am glad I am on this train with Lemmy (Both Beehaw.org and lemmy.ml)

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[–] biscuitsofdoom@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've checked out for a couple years ago.

In many ecosystems, wildfires are nature's way of regenerating the earth,

[–] spoonful@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Reddit needs to die unfortunately. The last 5 years of development was spent on shitty stickers and nfts that no one will even remember. The project has zero vision, no wonder they want to cash out.

[–] Trollivier@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

I used to spend so much time on reddit every day. But I just can't condone what's happening. I won't go back. It sucks. I hate it. But I'll survive.

[–] Sparkko@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I subconsciously open Sync for Reddit and start scrolling about 50 times every day. Just joined here and installed Jerboa to try to supplement the habit. I love the environment here, but boy is it clunky and the content is so much more limited than Reddit. I'm definitely going to miss it, but I'll adapt.

[–] Mac@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

No, Reddit is trash. What you're missing is the small communities that made it worth enduring. Those communities are created and inhabited by people like us. They will live on somewhere else—maybe even here.

[–] nhgeek@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I am a little. I already deleted Apollo to break the habit. One might as well dive into the deep end. I'm all in on Lemmy now. I mourn the critical mass of Reddit but I'm hopeful Lemmy will rise to fill the void.

[–] chaoticPuppies@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

I deleted RiF a couple of days ago. RiF is reddit to me. I have countless subs and bots blocked. Still, I was scrolling r/all and realized how repulsed I was by the content. It was just page after page of junk. I still have my account, but I haven't logged in for days.

I am mourning the time I have wasted.

[–] nimnim@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I'm still in the anger stage and I can't understand why Reddit is moving towards a full self-destruction, but I'm glad that Lemmy exists because I believe it can become a suitable alternative over time.

[–] Kostyeah@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

I don't really miss it at all tbh. I wasn't an active poster, but I would lurk every day. At a certain point it got repetitive, where I could guess what the comments would be like on the next post. It got too big to support any meaningful discussion, and devlovled into stupid jokes and puns.

[–] jlarex@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

It's sad but Reddit has been going downhill for a while now so I've been expecting this day to come soon. This is just the final change that pushed me over the edge after having an account for 14 years. All the big subreddits seem to now be full of spam, arguments, ads disguised as posts. I'll only really miss the smaller niche communities I follow, I'm not sure Lemmy will be able to fill that gap but we'll see.

[–] lvxferre@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've mourned more for the shells of the eggs that I broke today. That was a tasty omelette.

I'm genuinely happy that Reddit is dying. Yes, it'll lead to some information loss and that's bad, but we've been stuck in that abusive platform for too long. Now at least saner alternatives will get some room to grow.

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