This is such a delicate subject. How do you talk about a societal broad issue without hurting individuals? With posts like these, there will always be people who feel aren't the real subject of it that feel the weight of it, and it's not a healthy way to approach things like this. There is a societal level problem with men's treatment of women, but men likely to see this post likely aren't part of that problem and want to improve things, and posts like this only kind of serve to to put people down. However, it's not like this post shouldn't have been posted, it's a serious topic that should be taken seriously and not ignored.

[–] blind3rdeye@lemm.ee -1 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I don't see it as a put-down.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I don't see how "You were ruined by your upbringing and don't deserve love" isn't a put down.

[–] redempt@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

that's not what was said. everyone needs and deserves love, but nobody is entitled to a partner. those who have had harmful socialization need to go to therapy to make sure they don't end up hurting others. really, everyone should go to therapy. it's good for you.

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