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[–] Cryophilia@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

The second is ~~a person~~ TWO PEOPLE refusing to learn to empathize and recognize when things are getting to the point where it’s bothering the other person.

ftfy. I'm sick of society always thinking that men have to learn how to be cleaner. Maybe women should learn how to not freak out over a little mess sometimes.

The onus should not be 100% on men to change. It should be a compromise, and part of it is women learning to relax and undo the ingrained "everything must look perfect" toxic baggage that they have, just as much as men need to learn not to live in a pigsty just because mom isn't around to clean up after you.