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So i still have depression and im constantly bored, i feel like a loser who cant do anything right. I want to let my creativeness out, make something i can share with the world or family, but im probably dreaming too big. I cant stand being depressed and bored, it stinks, everyone tells me to work out but i lack the motivation to do so.

i usually just watch youtube all day while complaining to family members that have no idea what to do about me.

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Sports outdoors with other people

[โ€“] Mugmoor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Whenever I feel this way, which is often, I tinker with my homelab or play music. Oftentimes I don't feel to motivation to, but I know once I start I'll get sucked right in.

[โ€“] fence_prude@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Making something. I'm taking lessons on metalworking, and it's really satisfying to have something that I made which can be useful in my daily life.

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[โ€“] cdk@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Physical hobbies like sports are very good, I went to a "martial arts club" for 2 years to train boxing. They shut down the boxing part of the gym during COVID and never started back up. So naturally I started singing. I had been singing in my car to and from work for almost 2 years at the time, so when COVID hit I started singing much more. Now Im in a choir and Ive been part of 2 concerts. You always have your voice with you so its easy to just put on some music and practise. I was still quite depressed so I got a dog, even though Im allergic, and have just gotten into university to get a degree in something completely different from my previous job. I feel amazing these days.

[โ€“] PeWu@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm positively surprised that I've not seen gym suggestion within 10 comments.

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[โ€“] 20watts@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Drawing of course ๐Ÿ˜! I think it would help to get your emotions out.

[โ€“] inspxtr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Turn the passive watching into something a bit active if you can. I like watching TV, and I sometimes try to analyze the data from them. Similarly, if you like watching youtube videos, maybe examine what it is that excites you about them, if any, analyze and introspect.

[โ€“] minorsecond@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago

Iโ€™ve thrown myself into competitive powerlifting and my bipolar disorder has been stable for like three years. The exercise can be tough but it really levels me out.

[โ€“] core@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

For me, it was running and reducing alcohol to very moderate levels. I'm at the point now that I crave a run to clear my mind and lower my stress. I rarely ever feel depressed anymore. Total game changer for me.

[โ€“] abbadon420@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

A cat? It forces you to do something useful everyday, which will make you feel good. Maybe a dog is even better, since you'd have to walk it, but a dog is a harsher commitment than a cat. You can't skip a walk with a dog, just because you re having a bad day. A cat however, will be fine for a day of neglect as long as you keep it's bowl full. A cat also enjoys playing outside though, so you could try that as well.

I had a kid, which didn't cure my depression, but it took away all my time. I didn't have time to think about depression anymore, so I kinda forgot about it. Though I wouldn't recommend having a kid for anything besides just wanting to have a kid.

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