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i’m doing it because I want to make the fediverse more friendly place, in hopes of making it more welcoming for new users, and the nicer place in general. But I wonder how much is just less bots.

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[–] soulifix@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

For the most part, yes. But I have noted lately that I do get some snarky people coming in with dishonest and bad faith responses. They're at least not as rampant as it would've been on Reddit. It's discouraging and demoralizing when you've got, what feels like, 100 people downvoting you to hell and 50 of them are swiping at you before deleting their accounts and doing it again because they're of the tribal mindset and you've somehow offended a part of the hive.

[–] wrenn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

Yeah in the last week or so I've noticed an uptic in snark / downright rude responses compared to when I joined ~2 months ago

I hope the trend does not continue

[–] Gorbachof@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I get a lot of that from the .ml instance users

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[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago

Haha prove it, bitch! I'm upvoting the hell out of you...

[–] pinkdrunkenelephants@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I have a conspiracy theory about Reddit and social media in general:

I think its algorithm not only puts up links but users and their comments in their view that are more likely to piss you off, and they measure this based on observing your post and comment history. I believe they categorize users by political affiliation and moral outlook by this method, and use that info to purposefully expose you to people who will cause you conflict to drive up engagement and therefore ad dollars.

I believe they also use chat bots to argue with people for that purpose.

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[–] acrobaticpenguin23@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Even in the hay day of online discussion forum websites you'd have trolls that derail threads and bring nastiness to the forefront.

Good moderation, clearly defined rules and quality of content are key contributes to quality forum.

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[–] noodle 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It depends where you go, surely?

I've met a fair number of numpties on Reddit but I've never had anyone tell me neckbeards are an oppressed group until I came to Lemmy 😂

Jokes aside, it's easy to avoid toxic people on here since they usually announce themselves loudly. It's easy to block users, communities, or even servers if you don't want to see something.

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[–] FabricatorGeneralHeadAss@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Well Karma ain’t a thing here so there’s not that much reason for bots to exist. Where on Reddit people make certain karma bots to sell. So here! Have a updoot. 👍

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[–] ReiRose@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

You have a lovely bum

[–] AngryBear@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Im too new to tell if Lemmy is more left or right leaning or somewhere in the middle. But Reddit is extreme left wing, you can’t even make a (bad) joke without getting banned.

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[–] banana_meccanica@feddit.it 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Keep in mind bots are always nice. We can't be here only for be friendly but also to drop our unpopular opinions and sometimes fight and dealing with the fact that we can't like or be liked by everyone.

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[–] neocamel@lemmy.studio 3 points 1 year ago

I disagree, but I uovoted you anyway. ;-)

[–] GustavoM@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Then you haven't posted enough and/or love the "herd mentality" -- it's my 1 month in and I already been massively downvoted twice by randoms with multiple accounts.

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[–] EtzBetz@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago

I think this is normal with a smaller community. Also we are the ones that care more about a healthy community. The bigger a community gets, the more dickheads will exist in it.

[–] krzschlss@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

It's just social credit. Why care?

[–] Novman@feddit.it 3 points 1 year ago

Maybe the reddit admins add toxicity to improve engagement? Post/comment manipulation seems common on internet today.

[–] rbm4444@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Maybe on mainstream social media rude comments overhang the good ones, not by quantity, but due to the amount of dislikes, big techs strategies of evidence to keep the users engagement, probably dislike a comment is worst then just ignore it. Note I'm not saying that it happens on Lemmy. I think it should be interesting a mechanism that put at the end of the thread the most disliked comments.

[–] Starkregen@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Think again fuckface.

-throws the ball and runs away to cloud district-

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