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not much to report, however i i have completed my reading goal for the year (35 books) with several months to spare thanks to The Red Corner: The Rise and Fall of Communism in Northeastern Montana

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[–] sparklepower@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This past week I started to see a new icon beside usernames that I haven't seen before. It's a little person with a 🚫. I searched online to find out what it means, and was not able to find any documentation about it. I assumed that it means this person has blocked me.

I came here to beehaw after having several negative experiences on other social media platforms. There's another website that uses a similar (incomplete) method of blocking. Someone used it to bully me by blocking me and making sure to post everywhere so that I would see the block symbol everywhere I go.

Sure I could just block them right back, and I have been doing so. But in realizing that people I have blocked are aware of me doing so, I feel that blocking ppl on lemmy is not so much a safety feature as I had previously thought.

I'm aware that creating and maintaining a social media platform is a huge undertaking, but I am also annoyed that so many of these devs creating the tools do not seem to care at all about their users' safety and wellbeing.

[–] Thelsim@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh, I never considered this before. I haven’t had any reason so far to block anyone, but would definitely like to know if the other party will be notified or not if it ever comes to it. I’d hate for bullies to find out if I blocked them or not, it would just encourage them to keep harassing me.
I would like to try an experiment, I’m going to block you (temporarily). Can you see if that symbol will pop up next to my name? I’ll unblock again in 24 hours or so.

[–] sparklepower@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Hi Thelsim, sure I'm happy to experiment with you. BTW I am using the Sync for Lemmy app for browsing. I haven't checked if things work differently on the Beehaw PWA.

On one of the previous social media sites I was using, there were a number of users who would chase and hunt down other users across various social media platforms to harass and bully. They mainly seem to target queer or trans women.

[–] Templa@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Doesn't that mean they have been banned? I usually use Jerboa to browse and people that have been banned have a 🚫 icon

[–] sparklepower@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

i'm not sure. if someone's been banned from my instance, would i still be seeing them around? doesn't really make sense to me.

[–] Templa@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They can't post anymore but the old posts still hang around unless deleted by mods I believe. You can confirm by visiting their profile, it usually says there if they have been banned or not

[–] sparklepower@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

ahh okay, i think this is different then, because i saw it on new comments and i didn't see anything in their profiles. it's possible that the different apps display different information, which is a whole other thing i don't have time to deal with 😅

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