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Most people just want a good life. If we stopped seeing each other as the enemies the world could be better.

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[–] rikudou@lemmings.world 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

No. Some people want to control other people because of their various sky daddies or a simple greed. And those are the ones fucking up your life. Everyone else could more or less get along, but fanatics, billionaires and other people hungry for control of others are actively make sure we don't.

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[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

Paradox of tolerance

I think of people who vote for bad politicans as useful idiots.

The average voter actually believe trump will make things better. There are people to somehow still believe trump isnt a racist. I don't know whats going on with their brains.

Like, of course there are those who are bigots and want more bigotry in government, but there are also many who are not exactly hateful racists or misogynists, they simply aren't that smart and easily get swayed by social media posts.

Think of them as victims of a scam (well, except that this is a on a much bigger scale and have more serious consequences 🙁)

I mean I don't expect people to forgive them for what they voted for, I mean I personally would have a hard time being around those types of people, but like, would you tell your grandparents: "It's your fault you got scammed"

I feel like a hypocrite for saying this, because on an emotional level, I hate hate everyone who voted for the fascist. But then when I think about the situation with my rational part of my brain, I realize people are just idiots and fall victim to the fascist scam. Its not necessary the person, but its that this is what our species is. A biological machine that although capable of rational thought, can still be easily manipulated.

Yelling at a person and telling them that they are stupid isnt gonna get them out of the scam, but talking to them might.

We aren't in a civil war yet, there might still time for dialogue.

[–] Tehdastehdas@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago
[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 5 days ago

Nah.

A life of experience tells me most people is awful, and will have zero regards on making your life miserable for whatever reason they see fit.

People is generally bad, they just are like that. My simple existence is hated and ilegal in most of the word. Most of people in this planet wish me death without even knowing me just because how I am.

[–] SuperSleuth@lemm.ee 0 points 6 days ago (2 children)

You make this argument and it immediately falls apart because people revert to "Well they want to do this, this, and this, so they actually are an enemy"

You see it here in these very comments. If you are different from the "normal" you will eventually be hated, regardless of whoever is in power. It is human nature. It has not changed, it will not change.

People, families, tribes, nations have risen to power and subsequently lost power. It's cyclical and will continue until we are inevitably wiped out by ourselves or the universe.

[–] Shardikprime@lemmy.world 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I mean we hunted and fucked neanderthals to extinction just because they looked like us but not exactly like us.

Yeah it's a nature thing

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

"I am vry smrt. Boog Brian here"

When someone wants to take away my freedoms or human rights. they are the enemy.

what you said is like telling a rape victim that they didn't ask if their rapist consented to raping them and so they asked to be raped because they didn't confirm they were indeed being raped.

wtf is wrong with people. bad people do bad things. punch bad people in the face and get it over with. we don't need to understand why they did it. fuck them up.

[–] SuperSleuth@lemm.ee 2 points 5 days ago

I don't see the need for insults.

These "human rights" were given to you by the current established powers. When those powers change the definition of good and bad do so as well. That was the intended message of my original comment.

It is naive to say "we don't need to understand why they did it" when, taking your stance here, it's imperative in preventing the "enemy" from taking away your "freedoms". But I see it differently, take one of my favorite quotes: "You judge yourself based on your own intentions, and judge everyone else on their actions". Call it optimistic, but I don't believe most people intend to cause harm, but make their choices based on their experiences and understanding of the matter.

So, I feel it's ridiculous to proclaim anyone as enemy, especially withstanding their reasoning. But you do not have to agree with this.

[–] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 0 points 6 days ago

This is true, but some of us are actually very different. That's not always a bad thing, either.

[–] DarkMetatron@feddit.org -1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yes, it gets problematic as soon as extreme positions and mentalities enter the equation. All extrem positions are toxic, extreme left, extreme right, extreme religious (any religion), extreme fans of a sports club, extreme anything doesn't matter.

If we could find some kind of balance, some true middle ground without huge extremes, then the world would be a much nicer place.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Or maybe work more on joint legislation

The way it works now is that each party eventually gets control and reverts previous legislation. Instead they should focus on passing more laws that are more agreeable to both sides.

[–] DarkMetatron@feddit.org 1 points 5 days ago

My comment was more in general for all of society, not only political parties.

But yes, for political parties that would be great!

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