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if don't know why it would be more specifically honest than other apps. that's really only defined by the user base, and their behaviour is likely to be shaped by what gets results. which, for better or, more likely, worse, seems to be that type of fake profile shit.
with luck there's be fewer bots, though. I don't think I got more than one single match with a real person while I was on tinder (I'm in nz, though, so pulsation density is definitely a factor there)
My argument about why would be more honest than other apps is that it would be distributed and self-hosted. Most dating apps are trying to eventually monetize you. It isn't that the users are more or less honest, is that the platform for themselves are less honest because they need to make you feel like it's worthwhile popping money on their dating website. Moreover, a self-hosted solution doesn't need to impress investors by having 12 billion users.