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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Thevenin@beehaw.org to c/egg_irl@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

So I've been thinking about Linux recently, and I'm told this is where the Linux experts hang out. I have a lot of questions that I can barely articulate, so I'm just hoping someone gets where I'm coming from.

I always knew there were more than two operating systems, but the closest I got to open-source software was dabbling with Firefox and OpenOffice in college. I'm an engineer, and trying to stay compatible with all the engineering programs means you're probably going to use Windows whether you like it or not, so I never seriously considered another OS until now. I'm proud of being good at Windows, but also bitter about itā€¦ I can't shake the nagging feeling that I've been missing out.

So I started looking up guides on Linux, and I have so many questions.

I'm astonished by how many distros there are. It's not just Ubuntu, we have Mint and Zorin and MX and enough options to make my head spin. So how do you choose a distro? Do you just know, or do you have to try them all? Trying one is daunting enough. I'm afraid people might lose respect for me and the open-source software movement if I change my mind. Is there some place where you can try distros on for size without the trouble and risk of migrating multiple times?

How do I know if Linux is right for me? How do I know Windows is wrong? If I loathe my user experience with Windows, is that the fault of Windows or just me? If Linux starts feeling comfortable, how do I know it's because I've made the right choice and it's not just inertia setting in? Does that even matter?

I'm at least good with Windows, but I lack the intuition of the average Linux user. Could I really master Linux the way I have Windows, or would my awkward personality relegate me to being a permanent tourist?

Is my hardware too old to start tinkering with OSs?

I know your choice of OS should take priority over your programs, as long as those programs aren't vital, but I have a full Steam library and don't look forward to losing any old friends. Can I partition my drive? Is that worth the trouble, switching from OS to OS depending on circumstances? I hear some distros these days can run some windows programs, and that you don't have to leave your old programs behind the way you used to, but can I count on that trend continuing?

Will losing touch with the Windows environment make it more difficult for me to succeed in a Windows-dominated career?

Sorry for the ramble. I'm probably overthinking this. I overthink everything. But I also grew up in a time and place where changing OSs meant you risked losing everything.

EDIT: The post title has been updated from ā€œNeed help with Linuxā€ to ā€œeggšŸ§irlā€ to meet local standards. This post happened because I was writing a post for a tech forum, but had other things on my mind, things which Iā€™ve yet to find the courage to verbalize directly. I appreciate the advice and encouragement, both about migrating to Linux, andā€¦ yaknowā€¦ ā€œmigrating to Linux.ā€

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[ā€“] yote_zip@pawb.social 11 points 1 year ago

I'm not trans but I am gay so you should value my opinion at 50%.

how do you choose a distro? Do you just know, or do you have to try them all?

Pick a reputable one, use it for a long time, figure out what you like/don't like about it, and see if any distros offer alternatives. Most distros offer 95% of the same thing, and the last part is usually down to the out-of-box experience, software availability, and how stable/bleeding-edge the software availability is. I always recommend Linux Mint to get started with since it's Debian-based (wide software compatibility, stable software updates, and the most typical/"normal" type of Linux distro without any gimmicks) and has a good reputation. You can almost always customize any distro to look and feel like any other distro, and they're more similar to "preconfigured installs" than "closed-off/unique ecosystems".

Is there some place where you can try distros on for size without the trouble and risk of migrating multiple times?

Try installing and running distros in a VM, e.g. VirtualBox (I don't know what the best one for Windows is). VMs act like an emulated computer and you can get the full experience of what an install will be like and how it will look/feel without giving it any real hardware.

How do I know if Linux is right for me? How do I know Windows is wrong? If I loathe my user experience with Windows, is that the fault of Windows or just me? If Linux starts feeling comfortable, how do I know itā€™s because Iā€™ve made the right choice and itā€™s not just inertia setting in? Does that even matter?

It depends on your values, but a lot of people simply use Linux because it is open source and community-driven, whereas Microsoft wants nothing more than to track you and give you as many ads as you'll tolerate. You can customize literally every part of Linux, and so I really like it because I'm a control freak and if I don't like the way something works I can change it. On Windows you get what you get and every year you get less tunables.

Iā€™m at least good with Windows, but I lack the intuition of the average Linux user. Could I really master Linux the way I have Windows, or would my awkward personality relegate me to being a permanent tourist?

You'll get comfortable quickly if you use a newbie-friendly distro. Linux is different that Windows in a lot of ways but it's not always in a good way or bad way, just different. My guess is that you'll actually become much better at Linux than Windows, because Windows tries its hardest to make the computer seem like "magic" and prevent you from understanding what's going on, whereas Linux lets you open and modify anything you want and even gives you documentation on how to do it. Nothing in Linux will ever tell you "no" (so be careful!).

Is my hardware too old to start tinkering with OSs?

Linux runs on fuckin anything. Windows is like "mmmm your hardware is 4 years old sorry you can't run Windows 11!" whereas Linux is like "does it have a CPU?"

I know your choice of OS should take priority over your programs, as long as those programs arenā€™t vital, but I have a full Steam library and donā€™t look forward to losing any old friends. Can I partition my drive? Is that worth the trouble, switching from OS to OS depending on circumstances? I hear some distros these days can run some windows programs, and that you donā€™t have to leave your old programs behind the way you used to, but can I count on that trend continuing?

IMO partitioning drives and dual-booting can make things complicated for a new user but if you aren't sure if you want to stay you might want to do it anyway. Games run very well on Linux in general, with notable games that don't work being listed here, and specific games listed here (Gold/Platinum is good). Linux (not based on distro) is very good at running Windows programs by using a compatibility layer named "Wine", but there are notable exceptions. Generally you should try to run very few Windows programs that aren't games, and you'll have the best experience by finding open source alternatives to common programs.

Will losing touch with the Windows environment make it more difficult for me to succeed in a Windows-dominated career?

That depends on how extensively your career revolves around Windows. IMO Windows and Linux are more similar than different, and if you're just being forced to use Windows to run some normal workflows you're not going to feel any culture shock. If your career revolves around help desk or something you might lose touch with troubleshooting tips.

All that said, I think you'll find Linux easier to use than you think. Linux itself has very few actual flaws at the moment, and most of the friction is because some popular programs don't have Linux versions. Make a list of all the programs you use, see if they have Linux versions, and look for alternatives if they don't. Also make a list of all the games you want to play and check ProtonDB to see how compatible they are.