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I am still very much a novice in the self-hosting space, Linux etc. having fairly recently switched from using macOS as my daily driver and not tinkering much at all.

One of the things that often confuses me is networking and making sure my setup is secure. This is currently holding me back from hosting more stuff locally that I would require access to from outside my home, as I am afraid I am doing something that could severely compromise my data. It can sometimes be difficult to follow explanations from more advanced users due to the many different components of networking and security, and different layers of abstraction, which prevents me from following completely. I might understand one particular case, but then be unable to make connections to another one. So I would want to research this more intensively, and ideally I would end up being able to easily understand the data flows - the paths the data takes (e.g. I make a HTTPS request to some server from my laptop, how is that traffic routed correctly through my local area network and later the wide area network), in what forms (i.e. different protocols, encryption layers etc.).

In communities like this, I see there are a lot of very knowledgeable people who maybe could recommended any resources that cover this from the basics and onto more advanced stuff? Maybe a textbook from a university course on ICT that is considered particularly good? A YouTube channel with great explanations and visualizations? I am looking both at home LAN and internet in general. Enterprise level networks are not very interesting to me (at the moment).

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[–] dim@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

For homelab, start with the absolute basics - setup a firewall, and make sure you understand how it works! Map out your network topology, even if it is just your DSL box, router & your PC + printer with a raspberry pi (or 2) for your project.

After you've made absolutely sure that the outside world can only get in where you've let it, then you can focus on having good application-level security; unfortunately this is really case-by-case.

As for resources, I would start with YouTube - you tend to get to focus your learning a bit better and spend less time searching for something relevant (as you mentioned, enterprise tends to be the focus, because they're often the main targets of network related attacks). For more depth, but not crazy detail, try the O'Reilly books or similar on networks & related security topics (there are a few!)

[–] cyberwolfie@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

For homelab, start with the absolute basics - setup a firewall, and make sure you understand how it works! Map out your network topology, even if it is just your DSL box, router & your PC + printer with a raspberry pi (or 2) for your project.

Hehe, yeah, but even here I run into a large forest of terms and concepts. For example (the questions are only examples of things I stumble upon in this process, not questions addressed at you): "Setup a firewall" - on my server or on the router? Or both? And since my router is provided by my ISP which has its settings exposed through their online portal (which I hate the thought of), how does that factor in? What use is a router firewall if someone gains access to this portal and can configure at will? Can I set up the router in bridge mode and incorporate my own router, and thus have complete local control of my network? Couldn't someone simply deactivate this in the online portal if they gained access there? And if I open ports in the firewall for a specific application, what risks am I running outside of exploits in the applications themselves? For example, I have opened a port in the router settings for torrenting Linux ISOs (for a specific local IP) - could traffic through the same port be used to compromise the network in other ways? etc. etc.

Suddenly I have fifteen questions. So when trying to research the answer to these questions, I often get slapped with five concepts I either barely have grasp of or don't know at all in one sentence that tries to explain what is going on. It's not that it is impossible to learn this way, but it tends to quickly become overwhelming, and I run into explanations of concepts I don't have enough prerequisites to learn properly yet. Which is why I am trying to get a coherent introduction to all the topics in a sensible, curated way to beef up my understanding of it, so that the research process becomes easier.

For more depth, but not crazy detail, try the O’Reilly books or similar on networks & related security topics (there are a few!)

Cheers, I will have a look to see what I find :) Sounds very much what I am looking for.

One more thing - install Wireshark and get a real-time view of what your network is doing. Massively helpful tool.

I have been meaning to install it to learn more about the structure of the packages that are sent and received. Thanks for the reminder.

[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

"Setup a firewall" - on my server or on the router? Or both?

Both. Access from the internet to your devices is protected from your Router. You should only ever open ports to things you want to access outside of your house. For example, a website on TCP 443 is a good thing to allow. Database access on TCP 3306 is NOT something you want to access from the internet.

Internal to your network, you can open up the Database port on TCP 3306 if another computer in your network needs access to it. Don't leave it open for no reason.

And since my router is provided by my ISP which has its settings exposed through their online portal (which I hate the thought of), how does that factor in?

Is it a private IP Address you use to access (IE http://192.168.0.1 or is it some other thing?) If it's a private IP address, that's standard and is no problem. I've never heard of logging into something like a public website to open ports on your router.

What use is a router firewall if someone gains access to this portal and can configure at will?

If someone has access to your Internet Providers firwall/router combo device thingy, then it's game over. they can open any ports, do anything they want to it. However, this is unlikely. Make sure to keep your Router up to date and only open ports that you know what they're for 100% and what they do. NEVER allow access to the admin panel from the internet (WAN port). Though, if you need to use their public website (which I doubt) then it's moot and you cant do anything.

Can I set up the router in bridge mode and incorporate my own router, and thus have complete local control of my network?

Yes, if they support it. This is what I do and that's exactly what's it's for.

Couldn't someone simply deactivate this in the online portal if they gained access there?

Sure but this would give them access to your Providers firewall, which you have your own firewall plugged into so it doesn't matter. You will still be protected by your self provided firewall, some things will stop working (you'll be double NATed so public services might not work) and it'll be a clue someone changed something on your Providers firewall.

And if I open ports in the firewall for a specific application, what risks am I running outside of exploits in the applications themselves? For example, I have opened a port in the router settings for torrenting Linux ISOs (for a specific local IP) - could traffic through the same port be used to compromise the network in other ways? etc. etc.

Yeah, so if you open no ports. you block everything.... The only exposure (of people trying to connect to you) is the firewall/router you have sitting there watching what goes on. Keeping this up to date is VERY important and they have pretty good history of not being hacked so I'd say you're safe. For each port you open you add a service that people from anywhere in the world can talk to. So, if you open port TCP 443 and have Nginx or a website answering requests, you now need to make sure this is as secure as possible. ANYONE ANYWHERE can talk to it. If a exploit is found in Nginx/your website then it can be used to get access into that computer, From there, they are on your computer and can see anything that computer has access to. If you have 2 ports open. IE website + Torrenting, Now you have two things you MUST keep up to date because anyone can talk to them and exploit them to get into your computer. This is why you MUST know what is open to the internet and what it's doing. The more things you have the more options you give hackers to get in.

Suddenly I have fifteen questions. So when trying to research the answer to these questions, I often get slapped with five concepts I either barely have grasp of or don't know at all in one sentence that tries to explain what is going on. It's not that it is impossible to learn this way, but it tends to quickly become overwhelming, and I run into explanations of concepts I don't have enough prerequisites to learn properly yet. Which is why I am trying to get a coherent introduction to all the topics in a sensible, curated way to beef up my understanding of it, so that the research process becomes easier.

I would do what they said. Start small and at the first point of contact. Understand what is plugged into the internet (ISP Router) and all the settings on it. Understand what NAT means, understand how to open ports, etc. Then start small, Set up a computer and make sure you know what ports are open. If you want a website set it up so it works internally, test it, maybe port scan your server (with nmap or something) to see what's open and understand what they're for. Close the ports you don't need open then you can consider opening it from the internet.

the most important thing is keeping it up to date and only open what you need access to.

A side point is, if it's just you that needs access to it, consider a VPN (wireguard) or overlay network (tailscale) so you only need to open one port and that will give you access to everything you need in your network.

[–] cyberwolfie@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Wow, I didn't expect anyone to actually answer the questions, but it is very very appreciated. Thanks a lot for taking the time to do so.

Both. Access from the internet to your devices is protected from your Router. You should only ever open ports to things you want to access outside of your house.

Ok, good. So the firewall is already configured to block everything as far as I know, except for what I explicitly allow which for the time being is only my torrent client on two different machines (randomized ports).

In a homelab setting, I believe what I want to do is expose one port to a reverse proxy and redirect traffic to local services from there. But this is one of the things that I am uncertain about because I don't entirely understand how this works. In my head: I open port 8080 where e.g. Nginx Proxy Manager listens. This is the only port anyone can gain access to anything inside my home network, and the proxy manager will say "Hey, this traffic should be redirected to port 8096 and this traffic should go to 4533", but no direct connections to these ports can be made from outside my own network as they are not exposed. I am vulnerable only to the extent that there is an exploit in the proxy manager itself or the services. I intend to run all services in Docker containers, so they should not have access to anything else on the server, and the volumes that are mounted are ideally read-only (but that cannot always be the case). It sounds safe enough, but again, since I am not entirely certain that my understanding is correct, there might be a massive gaping hole somewhere I am unaware of.

Is it a private IP Address you use to access (IE http://192.168.0.1 or is it some other thing?) If it’s a private IP address, that’s standard and is no problem. I’ve never heard of logging into something like a public website to open ports on your router.

No, it is https://wifi.myisp.tld. It seems to require being connected to the WiFi to work. If I'm connected to a VPN or through mobile, it will give me an error. With my previous ISP, it was a simple login with username and password with a SMS 2FA. I never attempted to login from elsewhere then, so it might've been likewise protected. In any case, they do it like this so that less tech-savvy people can have the support perform any necessary changes on their behalf instead of trying to guide them by phone through the local web interface. So it can be accessed without being connected to the WiFi, but I guess there are larger problems if the ISPs system has been compromised to allow this somehow.

Yes, if they support it. This is what I do and that’s exactly what’s it’s for. Sure but this would give them access to your Providers firewall, which you have your own firewall plugged into so it doesn’t matter. You will still be protected by your self provided firewall, some things will stop working (you’ll be double NATed so public services might not work) and it’ll be a clue someone changed something on your Providers firewall.

Yeah, they support bridge mode. So is this essentially enabling free flow of traffic through and completely trusting the secondary router I provide myself? And if someone then disabled bridge mode in the online interface (again assuming that this would be possible), I am not exposed as long as I have my own router following the provider's router?

So, if you open port TCP 443 and have Nginx or a website answering requests, you now need to make sure this is as secure as possible. ANYONE ANYWHERE can talk to it.

What happens if I have a port open that nothing is listening to? Is that a security concern? For example, the ports to my torrent clients when I am not using the torrent client.

A side point is, if it’s just you that needs access to it, consider a VPN (wireguard) or overlay network (tailscale) so you only need to open one port and that will give you access to everything you need in your network.

As I mentioned above, I am considering a reverse proxy, which to my understanding also limits the number of ports open to 1. How does that compare securitywise in your opionin?

[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

Thinking about the torrent thing, there's no better way to do it. I'd personally open a static port IE 12345 and point that at the torrent client on the PC. I would not randomize it and open a massive range on your firewall just in case. Then just close the client when you're done and know that packets for 12345 will still reach your PC, they're just dropped there.

Not that I support it, but if you're downloading more then just Linux ISOs and you're in a country with pretty strict laws around this sort of thing, you should be using a VPN that supports opening ports. then you do not need anything open on your firewall, just to connect to the VPN when you're ready to sail the high seas.

UPNP should be disabled on your firewall (unless you play xbox or whatever). This allows a device, like an xbox or PC, to request your firewall open a port. This is needed for some online games to work properly but is not very good for security.

[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I open port 8080 where e.g. Nginx Proxy Manager listens. This is the only port anyone can gain access to anything inside my home network, and the proxy manager will say "Hey, this traffic should be redirected to port 8096 and this traffic should go to 4533", but no direct connections to these ports can be made from outside my own network as they are not exposed.

Draw it out. anything in the path has the potential to be exploited.

Internet -> ISP router -> TCP port 8080 to Nginx Proxy Manager -> TCP 443 to Computer running docker -> Docker Container -> Service.

So, in the above, The entire world will have access to only your IP on port 8080. Nginx proxy manager will take the packet, read it, do what it needs to and forwards it to the destination. I'd say that Nginx proxy manager and the end service are at risk to be exploited. If they get in then They'd be isolated by Docker and they'd need a docker exploit to get out. However, they'll be in the docker container so they'll have access to whatever that container has access to, and unless you block outbound access from the container it's basically everything in your network.

I think what you're getting at is, if I have Nginx listening on port 443 and is open to the world, can they access my game server on port 1234 that is local only. The answer to this is no. They will not have access to the game server. They need to first hack Nginx, from the PC/Docker container they then need to have access to your game server on port 1234, and if there's nothing block them (by default I believe there is nothing stopping this) then they can hack your game server.

No, it is https://wifi.myisp.tld.

if you ping wifi.myisp.tld what is the IP address? is it private? what if you go to http://ip.add.re.ss it should be the same thing???

If I'm connected to a VPN or through mobile, it will give me an error. With my previous ISP, it was a simple login with username and password with a SMS 2FA. I never attempted to login from elsewhere then, so it might've been likewise protected.

It sounds like it's private and only you have access. However, the ISP usually have their own way to get into these devices, or at least to push updates or config changes. So your only risk here is the ISP being hacked, then getting you from there. OR the actual device it self having a flaw in it and someone getting in that way. In either case, all the ISP customers will be at risk. You can still go in bridge mode to protect from this.

Yeah, they support bridge mode. So is this essentially enabling free flow of traffic through and completely trusting the secondary router I provide myself?

yes. Bridge mode means the ISP provider router is now only for translation (IE: from coaxial/DSL/Fibre to RJ45/cat cable). You plug the ISP device into the WAN port of your own device and now your device has the public IP address and that is what your trusting to protect you.

And if someone then disabled bridge mode in the online interface (again assuming that this would be possible), I am not exposed as long as I have my own router following the provider's router?

yeah, as long as the ISP router is plugged into the WAN port of your router and ONLY the WAN port, then you're safe from the ISP shenanigans.

What happens if I have a port open that nothing is listening to?

The firewall/router will forward that packet to the IP and port. If there is no device on that IP the packet will be dropped inside your network and nothing will happen. If there is a computer there and the Computer firewall is blocking access to that port, the PC Firewall will either drop it or reply saying it's closed. This depends on how the PC firewall is configured. If the PC has the port open but there is no service, the PC should just drop the packet but it will still make it to the comptuer.

Is that a security concern? For example, the ports to my torrent clients when I am not using the torrent client.

Yes and no. Something could start listening on that port and start replying, You'll have no idea if a service is listening on it unless your looking or it's too late.

Ignoring the fact that something COULD start listening on it, then no, there's no real concern but I'd never do this myself. It's like giving out a bad phone number as your number, IT's possible someone will be given this phone number and now you'll have problems.

As I mentioned above, I am considering a reverse proxy, which to my understanding also limits the number of ports open to 1. How does that compare securitywise in your opionin?

that's fine, just keep everything in the path up to date. I have port 443 open pointing to nginx, from here I forward traffic to Home Assistant, NextCloud, Headscale, etc, etc. They're hosted in docker.

I have scripts that try to update everything every hour and I'm not really worried. I'd rather a update to a new version take down my services then trust myself to login every couple days and do it manually.

[–] cyberwolfie@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

if you ping wifi.myisp.tld what is the IP address? is it private? what if you go to http://ip.add.re.ss it should be the same thing???

The IP address is outside my network. If I try to connect directly to the IP address, it fails the certifications, I get a list of domains that are connected to the cert and am allowed to "continue and accept the risk", landing at the same site.

yes. Bridge mode means the ISP provider router is now only for translation (IE: from coaxial/DSL/Fibre to RJ45/cat cable). You plug the ISP device into the WAN port of your own device and now your device has the public IP address and that is what your trusting to protect you.

OK, I will definitely look into this in the near future then.

as long as the ISP router is plugged into the WAN port of your router and ONLY the WAN port, then you’re safe from the ISP shenanigans.

There's a modem connected to the WAN port, and the router/hotspot is connected to the modem. But I guess that doesn't change anything?

I have scripts that try to update everything every hour and I’m not really worried. I’d rather a update to a new version take down my services then trust myself to login every couple days and do it manually.

I will definitely need to setup this myself then. Do you run this as cron jobs?

Thinking about the torrent thing, there’s no better way to do it. I’d personally open a static port IE 12345 and point that at the torrent client on the PC. I would not randomize it and open a massive range on your firewall just in case. Then just close the client when you’re done and know that packets for 12345 will still reach your PC, they’re just dropped there.

OK, that is basically how it is configured now. It is not randomized in the sense that it changes every time, but it is listening on a port that was randomly chosen, but it is static since configuration.

Not that I support it, but if you’re downloading more then just Linux ISOs and you’re in a country with pretty strict laws around this sort of thing, you should be using a VPN that supports opening ports. then you do not need anything open on your firewall, just to connect to the VPN when you’re ready to sail the high seas.

I do use a VPN (with port forwarding supported, but I have not activated it, which I know could affect performance, but I have not noticed anything here). Is the port opening on my router unnecessary in this case?

[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The IP address is outside my network

I don't like this. That's super weird and I would not trust it. I'm sure it's "fine" but I'd hard pass on that. Set up my own 100% for sure.

There's a modem connected to the WAN port, and the router/hotspot is connected to the modem. But I guess that doesn't change anything?

I don't understand. Can I get a pic (MS Paint or real or something) or some brand names or something? I understand if you don't want to show, I'm just not sure what you're saying.

My ISP gave me a white box, I plug a fibre cable from the street Plus power from the outlet into this box. Then I have a cat6 cable from this box (port 1 as per their instructions) into the WAN port of my firewall. My Firewall has a Public IP on it's WAN interface and I have 4 ports for LAN. The same firewall gives off wifi to the rest of my house.

I will definitely need to setup this myself then. Do you run this as cron jobs?

Yeah, here's one of them for a VPS I rent: 30 * * * * root dnf clean all ; dnf -y update && needs-restarting -r || /usr/sbin/reboot

I actually run things in Kubernetes and use https://github.com/keel-hq/keel to keep my pods (containers) up to date.

I do use a VPN (with port forwarding supported, but I have not activated it, which I know could affect performance, but I have not noticed anything here). Is the port opening on my router unnecessary in this case?

The port opening on the router is unnecessary and could be a bad thing. If you're using a VPN with port forwarding I'd close the one on your router right now. The "open" port is open via the VPN connection so they do all the opening for you, you just need to make sure your PC is on the VPN.

Go to this site with out your VPN on, it will tell you if you're using your raw internet to download torrents: https://iknowwhatyoudownload.com/en/peer/

it sounds like you might be doing that, or at least have the ability for people to connect to you via your ISP (bad) and not over the VPN (good)

[–] cyberwolfie@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don’t like this. That’s super weird and I would not trust it. I’m sure it’s “fine” but I’d hard pass on that. Set up my own 100% for sure.

Yeah, good to have my suspicions confirmed. This setup is standard where I live now, and I don't think you can get around it. First I noticed this was a coupe of years back. I'll start finding a suitable router and set it up in bridge mode.

I don’t understand. Can I get a pic (MS Paint or real or something) or some brand names or something? I understand if you don’t want to show, I’m just not sure what you’re saying.

I have two small boxes in a cabinet - one is receiving a white cable that comes from outside my home, and outputs an optical signal that goes into the other box. This other box also gets a coax cable from outside my home, and outputs an ethernet connection that is connected to what my ISP calls a WiFi router. This has additional LAN ports as well.

Go to this site with out your VPN on, it will tell you if you’re using your raw internet to download torrents: https://iknowwhatyoudownload.com/en/peer/

I could not access this site now, however, I've checked this with the torrent address detection tool on ipleak.net many times before. I recently had an issue where my real IP would show for a second if I disconnected my VPN connection manually, but I solved this. My torrent client is bound to the interface created by the VPN client. At this point I am pretty sure it is fine. But I will close the ports again.

[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I have two small boxes in a cabinet - one is receiving a white cable that comes from outside my home, and outputs an optical signal that goes into the other box. This other box also gets a coax cable from outside my home, and outputs an ethernet connection that is connected to what my ISP calls a WiFi router. This has additional LAN ports as well.

humm, I've never seen or heard of this. I've only ever been provided one box by my ISP. I have two guesses... Either you can replace your WiFi router with your own and everything will be okay or you'll have to add a 3rd that is your own and Plug it into the WiFi router and ask them to put it in bridge mode. My guess is they can help you a lot better then me guessing.

torrent client is bound to the interface created by the VPN client.

perfect. Then you can close the open port on your router for sure. My Torrent client (rutorrent) shows what IP and port I'm using at the bottom, these are my VPN IP and the port I opened with the VPN provider.

[–] cyberwolfie@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

humm, I’ve never seen or heard of this. I’ve only ever been provided one box by my ISP. I have two guesses… Either you can replace your WiFi router with your own and everything will be okay or you’ll have to add a 3rd that is your own and Plug it into the WiFi router and ask them to put it in bridge mode. My guess is they can help you a lot better then me guessing.

From what I've understood from previously looking up this with my ISP, is that I connect my own device to the WiFi router they gave me. In that case I have four boxes... :) But I will naturally double check this before going forward with it, and then I might also get some clarification on what the two different boxes in my cabinet are. Bridge mode can be activated through a switch in that online portal though.

perfect. Then you can close the open port on your router for sure. My Torrent client (rutorrent) shows what IP and port I’m using at the bottom, these are my VPN IP and the port I opened with the VPN provider.

I've closed them and everything still works the same way. So I guess the ports have just been open for anyone to say hello. A good example of one of the many areas where I get confused because I don't truly understand all this stuff very well. I learn more every day, and I've gotten plenty of tips in this thread, but it makes me a bit sad that self-hosting safely requires spending a lot of time learning about this stuff, and requires continued vigilance to keep things updated. This excludes a lot of people from enjoying the freedom that comes with data ownership and control. My issue is of course not with the self-hosted solutions - the developers have done excellent work to make these tools available to people including myself, who is not an IT professional. My issue is rather that the society at large has given the major tech players carte blanche to do whatever they want for such a long time, that true privacy is so distant for most people. Some good things going on in Europe to combat this (at least against corporate malpractices), but still not nearly good enough.

Thanks again for all your answers. I really appreciate you taking the time to educate me on this stuff. It's time for me to log off the computer now, and stare at a large screen in my living room instead. The season finale of Stargate SG-1 season 6 awaits :)

[–] cyberwolfie@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh, before I go, I just realized that the boxes in the cabinet also handles fiber TV signals.

[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My fibre box does TV, phone, and internet all in one. I guess you have one for each? I'm interested to find out if you'll share.

I think asking them what each of them do and understand it is a good first step. Maybe you can get that down to 2 boxes. Good luck!

Nice! Glad its still working! Definitely triple check with something like https://canyouseeme.org/ when you open ports. I'm a Linux Sys Admin and happy to do my best to help of you have any more questions. At least I'll try and get you on the right track.

I 100% agree with you on the rest. Canada isn't doing anything and at this point I'm ready to give up. I'm not sure where to draw the line anymore and self hosting is a bit of a pain for me these days. Personal life is a bit rough and it's just so easy to make a gmail account and have them host it.

[–] cyberwolfie@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

My fibre box does TV, phone, and internet all in one. I guess you have one for each? I’m interested to find out if you’ll share. I think asking them what each of them do and understand it is a good first step. Maybe you can get that down to 2 boxes. Good luck!

I'll try to remember to DM you when/if I get any answers, but I am currently sick and will be traveling soon, so I am not entirely sure when that will be. The boxes in the cabinet aren't really in the way, so I am fine with the two boxes there. But it would be nice to avoid having to use their WiFi router if possible though. There is in fact a last box that I have packed away in a closet: the decoder for TV signals, which I don't use since I don't have the included in my plan (I could discard TV from my plan in exchange from going fro 100 -> 500 MBit/s internet connection, which for me was a no-brainer). So their standard setting is four boxes, and that is only for TV and internet.

Nice! Glad its still working! Definitely triple check with something like https://canyouseeme.org/ when you open ports.

What a great tool! I will definitely make use of this.

I’m a Linux Sys Admin and happy to do my best to help of you have any more questions. At least I’ll try and get you on the right track.

Cheers, I appreciate that. I might just send you a question or two in the future if I am stuck in trying to figure out something, but of course, don't ever feel obligated to answer.

I 100% agree with you on the rest. Canada isn’t doing anything and at this point I’m ready to give up. I’m not sure where to draw the line anymore and self hosting is a bit of a pain for me these days. Personal life is a bit rough and it’s just so easy to make a gmail account and have them host it.

Yeah, it is difficult to draw the line. With about 15 years of just going with the flow, signing up for and using all kinds of services, I've lately (the past two years at least) trying to untangle me from the worst of it. It takes so much time, and every time I learn about something new (e.g. fingerprinting has finally just started creeping me out) I fall down yet another rabbit hole. I am trying to work myself towards as complete control over my data as possible, including an elaborate homelab setup (though that is still some time away). Hence trying to understand this stuff better so I can do it properly.

I hope you get through your stuff in your personal life. This interaction has in any case been greatly appreciated by me.

[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

I'll try to remember to DM you when/if I get any answers

Thanks! No worries if not, It's just a different setup then I'm use to. Safe travels! I think I got sick over the weekend too. hah.

I also have 500 MBit/s symmetrical internet. They tried to upsell me on 1.5GBit/s but my Firewall only supports "up to 700 MBit/s throughput" even though it has gigabit NICs so watch out for that also :) https://shop.netgate.com/products/1100-pfsense is the one I use. I'd love to upgrade but money has been tight for awhile.

but of course, don't ever feel obligated to answer.

No problem! I'll answer when I can, even if it's a "I don't know"

I am trying to work myself towards as complete control over my data as possible,

I started doing this in college. Deleted Facebook, started buying cheap Tiny Lenovo PCs to run everything on. It's almost a chore now but I still enjoy it. I think the issue is I also do it all day at work so it kind of feels like more work after work, you know? I'm paying a company to host my email because I tried doing it myself and it was too much work.

I hope you get through your stuff in your personal life. This interaction has in any case been greatly appreciated by me.

All good, I was just giving context. Thanks though!!

[–] dim@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

One more thing - install Wireshark and get a real-time view of what your network is doing. Massively helpful tool.