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I'm the opposite.
I considered myself bi for some time, but since my egg cracked I find myself liking men less and less
edit, self reflection, sex
but, you know, now that you got me reflecting on it, I really did always want to be a lesbian. I tried to date a few lesbians (pathetic, I know. I didn't understand my feelings).I was never attracted to any man or wanted to date a guy, but the idea of having sex with a man was like... The only way I could conceive of my femininity. If I couldn't be a girl, at least I could have sex like one.
So, just like wearing the clothes, growing my hair, "pretending" to be a girl with my wife, and having sexual fantasies that include men, it was all just triangulation to get me close to something I wanted. Femininity, woman-ness.
Now that I've accepted myself, I don't feel like I need that kind of connection anymore.