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K (189?–?) Soviet pioneer. From Kazan, Tartarstan, USSR, K was diagnosed as a ‘transvestite’ in 1937.

She was given permission by the People’s Court to wear female clothing, her identity papers were changed to her female name, and her name was removed from the military recruitment rolls.

She was featured in a 1957 gynaecology textbook.

M.G. Serdiukov. Sudebnaia ginekologiia I sudebnoi akusherstvo. Moscow: Meditsina 1957: 47-8.
Dan Healey. Homosexual Desire in Revolutionary Russia: The Regulation of Sexual and Gender Dissent. Chicago and London: The University of Chicago Press, 2001: fig 24.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago

I was bi before and bi after, I always had the bi cycle thing - sometimes leaning more to liking femmes, sometimes more for mascs, always open to enbies lol. Every once in a while I get the feeling I'm straight but inevitably some pretty girl comes by and reminds me I like girls too. My mom thought I was gay growing up, nope I was another letter in lgbt

I think some trans girls might realize they're straight after transitioning, it was part of the strict gender binary that you are hetero and a "man" and maybe it was permissive to say "well I'm bi so I can still play that role" even if that wasn't all the way true. I think some trans girls sometimes get caught up in comphet on the other side of transitioning and find out after trying to be straight they actually didn't like men all that much or were still bi. I have no idea how often either happens.

Honestly, I wouldn't worry about labels right now. Just do what feels right and makes you happy and joyous, eventually you'll figure it out. The label feels nice like a sweater on a cold day but it's also constricting. If you were bi before and you think you like men more now, that's fine, sexual orientations can be fluid plus you can still be bi if you're with a man. That's allowed